I have noticed that in some cultures, marrying a divorcee is looked-down upon, regardless of the gender. In olden days, it was difficult for a divorced woman to find another serious partner for a second marriage, however, now, with all the knowledge and modern developments, divorced men too are finding this a challenge. What do you think may be the reason behind this?
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discuss Re-marriages after divorces.
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In my country, divorced men that are financially stable don't have any difficulty finding another young, never married lady that would marry them. It is divorced women that actually find that difficulty in getting a man to marry them. It gets worse if they had a child in the previous marriage. I think it revolves around men craving to have a less complex life than what a woman in a previous marriage brings.
Re-marriages after divorce can bring fresh starts and healing. I’ve seen people grow from past mistakes and build stronger relationships the second time. I think many find happiness again with new partners.
It is judgemental people that make people that are divorced seem like inappropriate to find love again. If I meet a divorced woman that ticks all my dots, I would marry here regardless of her divorced status.
In our country, it is more difficult for women to remarry after divorcee compared to men. However, some of my relatives remarried after divorce and they are living a very good life, even though it was difficult start for them when they remarried due to the stigma associated with remarriage.
Remarrying is quite common in the Western world. You pick the person you think you love, go through the honeymoon phase, and that is the last phase before you realize they are a different person. Then, you're stuck with that different person to try and relove them, or to move on to someone else that can fulfill those needs, hopefully for life, but I've seen people get it wrong 3, and even 4 times before settling down in their 40s for the last time.
I wouldn't be opposed to my wife remarrying if I were to die. She deserves to be happy for as long as she lives, and she fulfilled her vows at that point. I just told her that if she ever did, she would lose my pension, so she should vet it out thoroughly if so.
I wouldn't be opposed to my wife remarrying if I were to die. She deserves to be happy for as long as she lives, and she fulfilled her vows at that point. I just told her that if she ever did, she would lose my pension, so she should vet it out thoroughly if so.
It is very rare to find people who remarry after they have already divorced. Generally, we view divorce as a failure and impossible to get back to such a relationship again. I’m not saying it can't happen but it's very rare.
That's an odd way to think about it. Sure, you failed with one person, but that doesn't mean you failed at being married to anyone.
I would look at it more as a job in this instance. You can be fired from one job because you got on the bad side of a manager, but that doesn't mean you don't possess the tools or know-how to do the job, and do it well, under different leadership, guidance, or setting. Of course, marriage as an institution is higher than a job, but it's the best comparison to show that maybe you failed, but rather the partner, or a combination, and you might be better with someone else.
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