discuss Would you prefer to marry a virgin or not?

[Ja sa bong]

What's your preference between getting married to a lady who's still a virgin that doesn't know man yet or a lady who's already exposed and experienced in art of sex and man?

I don't mind getting married to a virgin as long as she's willing to learn what's expected of her. A lady who's too wild isn't for me.

Would you prefer to marry a virgin or not?

 

[Ashake]

In this digital age, a person's virginity status no longer needs to be the top dating criteria. I was a virgin when I got married but that isn't applicable anymore because people really want to connect with a person who has good values and keeps an open mind in a relationship not the virginity.

 

[Unvarnished]

I fully approve of dating someone who remains pure sexually only if this person demonstrates readiness to get intimate with their partner. The sexual path of an individual must not affect their value or future in relationships

 

[Yama]

Why does the discussion about virginity only targets women, do men also need to be virgin. If you are too worried about not getting along with a woman just because she had been with men in the past, do you also realize women might also want men who have never been with a woman previously. Discussion about virginity is absurd.

 

[Fidelia1]

I am a lady and I won't marry a virgin man for any reason. My man should be able to give me chills on bed. A virgin man is so not experienced and would need time to learn. Sincerely, this lady here doesn't have that time for him to finish learning.

 

[Shawn]

I did not marry a virgin, nor did she marry one when she married me.

If we were younger, then it would have been normal. Younger as in teenagers or young adults in our 20s.

Both of us are in our 40s and have experienced life for multi decades. She even has two kids, both who are now adults.

Do I feel cheated? Not even the slightest. I feel like I've married someone with experience at being a grownup.

Before people lose that, they're often very childish in many ways. Not that it's a bad thing but it can be negative for a relationship at times.

 

[lens]

As much as I love to marry a virgin, it is not a guarantee to a happy marriage. I can't roll with a virgin that has a very bad character. So being a virgin is not the yardstick to a better relationship.

 

[Kross]

Being a virgin is not top on the list of requirements for someone that I intend to marry. A good character is not determined by being a virgin. I would have to look at other things beyond virginity when trying to make the decision of a life partner.