This happens to a lot of us, you meet someone and within a short-time you are taken off your feet by them, you are impressed and end up totally crushed, and if it is bilateral than it is often confused with love. However, with experience, you know that it is nothing more than infatuation which might eventually fade, how then do you tackle this? What kind of relationship should you have with such a person?
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discuss Should infatuation be pursued?
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This thread focuses on relationships, including communication, dynamics, challenges, advice, and their impact on personal growth and connections.
I always know that love takes time to develop. When you have that rush of attraction for a person, you need to calm yourself down and get to know the person. That's the best thing so that you won't go kindle love in someone and leave them when you realized it wasn't love. You might damage the person by that. Don't always pursue infatuation.
Infatuation is basically sexual interest and I am against pursuing someone for sex. If you build a relationship out of love, you get everything you want including physical satisfaction.
I don’t think infatuation alone should be pursued. It’s intense but often short-lived and idealized. I’d rather wait and see if it grows into something deeper, like respect, trust, and real compatibility.
Any relationship that is built in infatuation is always superficial and would not last. Infatuation is sponsored by lust and after the orgasm, reality sets in and that is when you would realize that you wasted your time, the other person's time and resources on what wasn't worth it.
Most of the time, relationship begins with infatuation. You like someone physically, you spend time together, and the liking and spending time together builds a bond, which can then change into a deep love.
Infatuation is real and it is important to note that love takes time to develop. So, I would advise not to rush when you get attracted to a person. You need to calm yourself down and get to know the person first.
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