discuss Must a couple share a room?

[Kross]

My mom and dad sleep in separate rooms. They have been doing so for more than two decades now. Most other people believe that it is just ideal for couples to be sharing rooms. Is there any special thing it brings to a couple when they share the same room?

 

[Yama]

Your mom and dad sleeping in a separate rooms is not an uncommon thing. My parents also sleep in different rooms. As people grow older, they loose their sex drive and they no longer want to sleep together. This is perfectly normal. However, things are different for younger couples, or sexual active couples. I cannot imagine couples sleeping in different rooms and still having perfectly ok relationship

 

[lens]

It is never a must for a couple to share the same room but it is necessary to folster intimacy and closeness. For me, I prefer to sleep in the same room with my partner. I don't prioritize personal space in my relationship.

 

[Shawn]

I don't think I would like to sleep in a separate room than my wife.

I enjoy the presence of her. I like waking up to see her there. I supposed the benefits of separating rooms is that one day one of you will be gone and it won't be as difficult to wake up and not see the other one there. The very thought of that scenario saddens me just creating it.

But I feel a lot more comfortable with my wife by my side even if she steals all the blankets during cold nights or tosses them all on me during hot nights, LOL.

 

[Harsh World]

As people grow older, they loose their sex drive and they no longer want to sleep together.

I don't know if this is a common issue among all old people or not, but I don't foresee leaving my wife's side just because we can't have sex anymore.

I'm sure we'll still talk ourselves to sleep over menial things...

However, we might get old enough where one falls asleep on the couch reading a book or watching TV on occasion, and the other just won't interrupt it to call to bed. But, I don't think that would happen much, unless age does it, because we make it known now that we're going to bed, and the other will typically join before going to sleep.

I don't mean to be grim, but I would much rather be by my wife's side as we could pass in our sleep. I'd prefer waking up next to her in that instance than finding her in another room later.

 

[Zani]

I know that few persons would end up saying that it is not a must that couples sleep together I'm thr same room, but it is a good way of bonding.

Waking up with your favourite person sleeping beside you is one of the best moments that I wish for myself.

 

[Apsara]

A couple doesn’t have to share a room, what matters is mutual comfort and communication. Some thrive with space for better sleep or personal time. I think it depends on people

 

[Fidelia1]

If I am married, I can't sleep in a separate room from my husband for a day. I am a cuddle person and I can't imagine myself rolling on the bed to reach my man to cuddle me and I can't reach him because we sleep in separate rooms. The day I start sleeping in separate rooms from my husband is the day I have started getting tired of that marriage.