discuss Is divorce the best option?

[Reelz]

I have never been divorced. But I know that It's never an easy decision and sometimes, it could be the only way to escape from a toxic relationship. I have seen friends and family members that are struggling to stay happy in their marriages and as God may have it, they finally find peace after divorce.

First thing first, we need to understand the emotional toll of bad marriage on the victims as it can be so devastating. However, a lot of people were liberated after divorce. Do not get me wrong! Sure divorcing isn't a good thing, but it is good to take care of oneself and step ahead to a better place. It might help one find oneself and start afresh.

 

[Ja sa bong]

My girlfriend have already left me in our relationship with a daughter to look after. I know what it feels like to be without your partner in some way even though it's not a full divorce.

Divorce is never good especially not for the kids.

 

[Demon_skeith]

My current girlfriend got a divorce, being stuck in a 10-year relationship with a man that didn't love her. For some it sucks, for others it is much needed to self-heal and become a better person.

 

[Shortie]

I would say it depends on the circumstances as to whether a divorce is the best option, for example, if both are not happy within the marriage and it is having a huge impact on the family, a divorce is probably the best option. It is those who use divorce as a means to make life difficult for the family that I feel are not choosing the best option but instead doing it out of spite.

 

[lens]

It is never an easy decision to make but I see it as the last resort for those that are trapped in toxic or unfulfilling relationships. I understand the emotional toll of bad marriages and I also know that it could be so liberating to come out of such a toxic relationship with a divorce. It's just a way to prioritize self-care over all odds even if it means starting a new life.

 

[NatureFreak]

Although I'm not an advocate of divorce for silly reasons, I believe that it is best to do so if a partner feels threatened in the marriage. There is no reward for staying in a union that results in one's death.

 

[Yama]

If you both totally hate each other, what other options do you have except getting separated. If you both have lost hopes for each other it is better to separate rather than stay in a toxic environment.

 

[Ja sa bong]

My current girlfriend got a divorce, being stuck in a 10-year relationship with a man that didn't love her. For some it sucks, for others it is much needed to self-heal and become a better person.

She already lived quarter of her life with the man. Why did she stay in a relationship where she wasn't loved for 10 years? I know she might have been manipulated but 10 years was too much.

 

[Fidelia1]

If a marriage is going to mess with your life, and make you live in constant misery, it is better to leave that marriage. You need to be alive and not die inside marriage. I am a proponent of divorce from marriages that mess with your mental health.

 

[Reelz]

If a marriage is going to mess with your life, and make you live in constant misery, it is better to leave that marriage. You need to be alive and not die inside marriage. I am a proponent of divorce from marriages that mess with your mental health.

Divorce can be liberating sometimes but people stay in relationships for diverse reasons even if it isn't working. I’ve got a friend who held on to a relationship because she never wanted to be alone and because of her financial issues.

 

[Kross]

Those were very flimsy excuse to hold on to a relationship that is draining you. The thing is that we don't know that if our mental health is damaged, the quality and longevity of our lives is negatively affected. I am pro divorce when it is not working. I advised my sister to divorce her husband and she did.

Divorce can be liberating sometimes but people stay in relationships for diverse reasons even if it isn't working. I’ve got a friend who held on to a relationship because she never wanted to be alone and because of her financial issues.ose

 

[Oshawott]

Sometimes, you simply has no option but to do it.

Divorce comes with a lot of social stigma and a lot of uncertainties. Having a child adds more and more complexities into this issue. Its not for us to proclaim in a blanket fashion if divorce is good or not, but it can only be done in a case-by-case basis.

 

[Apsara]

Divorce isn’t always the best option, but sometimes it’s necessary for personal well-being. I believe it depends on the situation, communication, and effort from both sides.