discuss How Do You Resolve Disagreements in Your Relationship?

[1stop]

Let's be honest, there are always conflicts in any type of relationship that two people have. So, in marriages we should expect disagreement. As they say, we agree to disagree. However; how do you overcome them and make the bond even stronger instead of just allowing things to become worse? What's your advice on how to deal with conflicts and learn to be stronger after it?

 

[Augusta]

The best bet will be to sit down like adults that both of you are and sort things amicably and that's it

 

[theearner]

By calmly discussing the issue, listening actively, and finding a compromise together.

 

[Harsh World]

I'll say from juvenile experience that the "quiet treatment" will never solve the problem, and you'll only waste time.

Like @Augusta and @theearner mentioned, calmly sit down and sort things out amicably. You could give it a day so things can cool off, but if you're constantly stretching out that day to a week before addressing the matter head-on, you are wasting time that you could be using to grow together.

 

[Unvarnished]

By calmly discussing the issue, listening actively, and finding a compromise together.

This means that communication must be efficient. It is very important to lean towards the aspects of recognizing one another’s point of view in any matter. The solution is to take a time out when anger levels are at their highest. This way, we can controll our anger.before bargaining again.

 

[King Belieal]

I always make sure that I talk with my partner. It might not be at the heat of the disagreement so that tempers would not let loose. After an hour or two, I would call her and we honestly talk about the root cause of the disagreement. And probably, a makeup sex can follow.

 

[Yama]

No matter who ever is at fault, if you come forward and say sorry, you can easily resolve your disagreement. There is no point in arguing, you will reach no where. You need the ability to communicate and respect your partner's intellect and emotions.

 

[NatureFreak]

Good communication is key. If my partner and I have a misunderstanding, I make sure that we talk it out and find ways to make amends. That is the best option as opposed to giving each other the silent treatment.

 

[Maina]

No matter who ever is at fault, if you come forward and say sorry, you can easily resolve your disagreement. There is no point in arguing, you will reach no where. You need the ability to communicate and respect your partner's intellect and emotions.

I absolutely agree with your view and I think men should always come forward and ask for forgiveness even when they are not at faults. that's because women always like to be treated special. They are made that way.

 

[Kross]

No matter who ever is at fault, if you come forward and say sorry, you can easily resolve your disagreement. There is no point in arguing, you will reach no where. You need the ability to communicate and respect your partner's intellect and emotions.

The challenges with this is that one partner would always be vulnerable and might be exploited. My own alternative is to create a atmosphere where we would talk about the problem from the root. And we identify the points that each person were wrong. We then apologize and move on.

 

[Apsara]

I try to resolve disagreements in my relationship by staying calm, listening actively, and focusing on the issue and not the person. For example, if we argue about finances, we sit down, discuss priorities, and find a compromise that works for both. Honest communication and patience always help us move forward.

 

[Augusta]

It is to Prioritize understanding and strengthening the relationship over winning an argument.Avoid blaming, stay respectful, and be willing to compromise.

 

[Fidelia1]

I create the enabling atmosphere that would aid communication, this way , I am able to make my partner express and identify the cause of the issue and possibly come to a compromise. I don't pretend nor give a silent treatment.