discuss How do you get rid of someone?

[lens]

There are times which require proper knowledge on how to eliminate unwanted individuals from our life. Establishing boundaries and learning to separate from unwanted people is a powerful tool for self-empowerment.

I maintain clarity when delivering messages with respect to those people when I want to make my intentions known. First of all, I recognise my needs and emotions before expressing them. I make sure to use non-aggressive words during communication with people I want to eliminate. I dedicate my time to build relationships which bring a positive impact to my life.

 

[1stop]

You need both physical and mental distance to successfully eliminate someone from your life. You need to carefully evaluate the reasons behind your decision to eliminate this person from your life. It could be due to toxicity or their inability to fulfill your requirements.

Your approach to the situation gets clearer by understanding your real motivations. If it becomes so difficult to do, you should seek support from professionals. That could be the way out.

 

[Shawn]

I'll typically quit going around the person, quit calling them, make up excuses when they want to get together - I'll make it obvious that I'm not interested in friendship anymore.

I've always been the one to break off relationships with lovers when we grow apart as well, there is no reason to continue it and both of us become miserable, especially if the love is gone.

I rarely have to do any of the above, though.

 

[Reelz]

Setting distinct boundaries is possibly the most important method to eliminate individuals who constantly bring negativity to your life.

I’m always very specific about my comfort range and that has been my approach to express the limits of what I will and will not accept.

The key to achieving clarity doesn't have to involve a mean behavior. My attention to self-needs and wants makes me step away from toxic people in my life.

 

[Oshawott]

There are two options - let them know or ignore.

I dont think ignorance is a good way forward because in that sense, the person being removed will have no clue as far the reasons are concerned and he will not improve also. Additionally, the person who is removing the other one will find it hard to eliminate the person also.

The ideal way forward is, to let them know, in black and white terms after you have taken your decision. Talk to them in plain language and it helps.

 

[Ja sa bong]

Out of sight is out of mind. Eliminate any possibility of being close to the person in real life and also online. If it's possible block them on social media sites, do it or better still unfollow them. It will stop you from seeing anything they do online.

 

[Yama]

If I want to get rid of someone, I just stop communicating, I start ignoring then. if they continue to pester me, I even tell them on their face. Generally speaking, I am not a rude person but when someone starts giving me headache I can be really rude.

 

[Ja sa bong]

If I want to get rid of someone, I just stop communicating, I start ignoring then. if they continue to pester me, I even tell them on their face. Generally speaking, I am not a rude person but when someone starts giving me headache I can be really rude.

There's always time to draw the line for your peace and mental health. It's very wrong to displease yourself to please other. I would never be foolish to try that against myself.

 

[Shortie]

Wanting to eliminate someone from your life is not a bad thing, especially if you are not happy with them being around or it makes you feel unhappy to be around them.

There is a saying that goes "out of sight, out of mind" and that doesn't just mean physical things but also people as well. I would look at the reasons why you need that person out of your life and look to keeping your distance as much as possible. Eventually, they will realize that you are trying to keep the distance and will stop trying to make contact.

Some people tend to feel guilty for trying to rid someone from their life but always remember, if something is affecting you mentally in a bad way, you have to put yourself first!

 

[Ashake]

I'll typically quit going around the person, quit calling them, make up excuses when they want to get together - I'll make it obvious that I'm not interested in friendship anymore.

That's a very good point because I have learnt to distance myself when I want to break up a relationship with someone. It is an effective way to set boundaries. Even at that, I still advocate for honesty and direct communication especially if you are so close to the person before.

Setting distinct boundaries is possibly the most important method to eliminate individuals who constantly bring negativity to your life.

It is critical to set boundaries and prioritize self-care. Always surround yourself with something positive at all times, this means you only need to let go of toxic relationships and focus on one that uplift and support you.

There are two options - let them know or ignore.

I dont think ignorance is a good way forward because in that sense, the person being removed will have no clue as far the reasons are concerned and he will not improve also. Additionally, the person who is removing the other one will find it hard to eliminate the person also.

That point is so important because clear communication cannot be ignored in this situation. If you don't have a conversation with them, it will lead to confusion and unresolved issues. It can escalate the whole thing and that could be very dangerous.

 

[Shawn]

Even at that, I still advocate for honesty and direct communication especially if you are so close to the person before.

As long as there are no negative consequences like violence or something of that nature -- then I agree with this statement.

 

[Ja sa bong]

I'll typically quit going around the person, quit calling them, make up excuses when they want to get together - I'll make it obvious that I'm not interested in friendship anymore.

I've always been the one to break off relationships with lovers when we grow apart as well, there is no reason to continue it and both of us become miserable, especially if the love is gone.

I rarely have to do any of the above, though.

My dad will always say, there is no need beating about the bush if he is no longer interested in your friendship or relationship. He will tell you directly and not mince words about it.

He's a very bold man. I love him that way.

 

[Kross]

For me, I would just slowly ghost the person. And before you know it, I have completely eliminated the person from my life entirely. I would reduce the contact with that person gradually and finally don't connect with the person again.

 

[Augusta]

I tell them how the situation is in detail. same way I tell it to a friend or relative to let them.go. I would be friendly and polite, but at the same time show that I'm firm on my ground you need to go

 

[Fidelia1]

I don't play hanky panky when I want to eliminate someone from my life. I would just ghost the person. Even if the person tries to reach out on phone, I won't respond. The person should get the message at some point that he or she is not wanted here anymore.

 

[Apsara]

While I haven’t done it but I think if I was in that situation I would just ignore and stop communicating