It is very good to have a warm, friendly and cordial working environment. It encourages one to look forward to going to work each day. However, when some colleague goes out of their way to make me comfortable, I actually feel suspicious and uncomfortable. Things like, always offering to stay back incase I would need any help, coming back to check on me several times, or offering me a ride back home when they can obviously see that my transport is already waiting, makes me wonder about their interest. It also gets annoyingly uncomfortable to decline them politely day in and day out. How would you tackle such a situation especially when you are new and they are quite experienced and senior age-wise too.
