discuss Do men cry after a rejection?

[Ja sa bong]

Ladies can't handle rejection, it's why they don't ask men out whom they're are in love with but the men haven't expressed the same feeling first. They rather sit back and not say anything while they're dying in silence.

Men on the other hand always face rejection in life in different ways. How tough men are built needs to be studied.

Do you think men cry after a rejection?

 

[Jason]

I'm sure most do in private. It's very weak of them to do that in public and most dating advice would say don't do it

 

[Shawn]

I don't.

I'm not a big crier. I get sad and depressed here and there but I just try to work on my emotions and do productive things.

Not to say that nothing can make me cry.

I just find it really hard to do it.

 

[Jason]

I don't think it's good for men to cry in public, but it would be wrong if they never did in private over very tragic things.

 

[Kross]

Men have been primed to be tough even as kids and that's why they don't get swayed to take rejection seriously. A man can be rejected several times by ladies and he makes an attempt to woo another lady the very minute after the last rejection. Any man that takes rejection from ladies and mauls over it is a sissy.

 

[Jason]

Buddhism and Christianity teach avoiding attachment and that idea would apply here.

 

[lens]

We don't have to approach this topic like men are not human. They are humans and it is natural for them to cry when there is emotional pain. I understand the enormous pressure from society that men should be tough but we are humans too. Blood runs in our veins.

 

[Harsh World]

Controversial: No, men (excluding adolescent boys) don't cry after rejection. Men also don't continue pursuing it after rejection.. They learn what rejection feels like and how to cope with it, then move on to find the next relationship that could be for them.

I don't think it's good for men to cry in public

I've cried in public and am comfortable with it if it merits. One instance was when I got a phone call that my friend (more akin to a brother since I spent full summers at his house) had passed when I was finishing the final paperwork for my new car. I was tearing up before I could get to the bathroom. It took me about an hour to compose myself enough to finish the paperwork to get the hell out of there.

By the time the paperwork was done, I wasn't even composed enough for the celebratory photo and congratulatory "ceremony(?)" they do for new purchases. I waved them off and got out of there to go drown my sorrows, as the car-buying experience was the least of my concerns at that time.

 

[Jason]

Controversial: No, men (excluding adolescent boys) don't cry after rejection. Men also don't continue pursuing it after rejection.. They learn what rejection feels like and how to cope with it, then move on to find the next relationship that could be for them.

Women are full of it. They reject and then want the same man back later.

My own philosophy is that I don't make an idol of women. I live for something else. Well, I can live for my son.

 

[Harsh World]

Women are full of it. They reject and then want the same man back later.

Better to still move on and not fall for the trap. If they can't make up their mind about that after some time and need to be with someone else to decide, then they're probably incompatible with you anyway, and you're just the fall guy.

 

[Jason]

Better to still move on and not fall for the trap. If they can't make up their mind about that after some time and need to be with someone else to decide, then they're probably incompatible with you anyway, and you're just the fall guy.

Well, we planning to be moving to a place to live, but it's still worth the investment because I'm making real estate contacts that help me and my son later on, and her if she's still around.

 

[Harsh World]

Well, we planning to be moving to a place to live, but it's still worth the investment because I'm making real estate contacts that help me and my son later on, and her if she's still around.

I'm all for what's best for the child.

 

[Yama]

I have cried for failure and also for the events that did not turn in my favor but I have not cried just because I was rejected. I have been rejected on multiple occasions, jobs, women, college, etc. but I have never cried for rejection.

 

[Jason]

What's worse than crying in public is some male (or female) who posts whiny posts on social media about failed relationships (getting even etc.).

 

[Dead2009]

I'm sure most do in private. It's very weak of them to do that in public and most dating advice would say don't do it

No it's not. In fact people have said its best for them to get their emotions out rather than bottled up.

 

[King Belieal]

Any man that is into the game of chasing after a lady should go with the mindset of a gambler. They might win and they might lose. That would help them not to be emotional to the point of crying simply because they were rejected. There are billions of ladies available to always retry your luck after the rejection.

 

[NatureFreak]

Cry over a rejection? Hardly! Real men take rejections as part of life's lessons and move on. Personally, there's a lot of things I'm worried about, and getting rejected by a lady is the least of them.

 

[Fidelia1]

I have turned a man down and the man cried begging me profusely. I didn't see him as weak. I just saw him as a human feeling same pains I would feel in that situation. Some men cry because they were rejected.

 

[Jason]

The level of hurt would be in proportion to how connected to her you were.