Tender age gets easily attracted to good looks however, age and experience teaches us that the power of knowledge and smartness has a total different fan-base. I am a sapio-sexual, and hence smart people catches my eyes more than just good-looking ones. But when I find a person with both of these traits then I feel like associating myself with them more strongly. What about you, do you get carried away by good-looks only?
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discuss Beauty over brain in a relationship?
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It is perfectly possible to have beauty with brains. The two are very important for me. And not having even one of the two is a turn off for me. I am not going to lower my standards for a ideal lady. She must be drop dead gorgeous and highly intelligent too.
While I value looks in a guy that I want to date, you can't use just have looks and think you can sweep me off my feet. I am a very smart lady and I won't want to be with someone that I can't look up to for intelligence.
Those who go for beauty over brains are only interested in having short flings. Someone who wants a long term relationship will priortize brain over something as superficial as physical looks.
Beauty is superficial and can easily fade. But having a partner that is brainy gives value that is very important to your life. You can just be assured that you would make decisions right together when you have a partner that has brains.
Beauty is a subjective thing, what is beauty for you might not be for others. You might not find someone beautiful at the beginning but as you spend more time, you might find that person more beautiful. Things like spending time together, fondness, trust and respect can make someone appear beautiful to you. To be in a relationship, you will have to spend a long time and when you spend time with someone and when you become fond of that person, you might find them beautiful.
Beauty is always in the eyes of the beholder. I can't deal with staying with someone who is not physically attracted to me, but it is pertinent to make clear claims that once it has to do with beauty vs brains, I would always have to pick brains first as I won't want to marry one who is a dummy.
Well, in any relationship beauty, brain and heart is important. Its impossible to move forward with a complete ignorance of any one component over the another.
However, there is a catch - beauty lies over the eyes of the beholder.
I guess that explains everything <3
However, there is a catch - beauty lies over the eyes of the beholder.
I guess that explains everything <3
Brains over beauty every time. I don't care how good looking he is, if he is 'thick', then I don't want to know. I only associate with intelligent people
Apsara
Captain Cackle
I believe brains outlast beauty in a relationship. Attraction may spark interest, but emotional intelligence, values, and deep connection keep it strong. I can be attracted towards fleeting charm but I would see other things when I decide to go into a relationship.
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