Some people kick against the idea of a man asking for DNA test on kids he has with his wife. They say it shows the man doesn't trust the wife. Does ordering for a DNA test on your kids show that you don't trust your wife? Or you just want clarity?
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discuss Asking for a DNA test on my kids: Does it show distrust?
- Thread starter King Belieal
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This thread focuses on relationships, including communication, dynamics, challenges, advice, and their impact on personal growth and connections.
There is no woman in the world that won't interpret a man asking for DNA test as distrust. And such a marriage won't ever be the same even after the DNA test has been done and there is no issues. It is better to secretly do DNA than let a woman know about it.
Do they do DNA on someone's child without the consent of the mum? Or would I have to get a court oder to be able to do DNA test on a child without the mother knowing? It even breaks the union more when a man does the DNA secretly.
Well, so many women will handle or interpret a DNA test as a sign of distrust from their man but I think it is to ensure clarity and to maintain certainty about the child's parentage. A conversation can be held to discuss DNA tests. It shouldn't be a problem at all.
Unless you caught your wife with someone red handed, I do not think it is justifiable to ask for DNA test for your kids. This nothing but insecurities.
I have seen seemingly loyal wives that did paternity fraud and gave another man's child to their husbands. I really believe that every man should do a DNA test for his children, especially for men living in my clime. The level of women sleeping around outside their marital home is very high over here.
I am just imagining my husband to demand for a DNA test when I have not given him any reason to distrust me? I would just allow him to go ahead and to the DNA test. But he better knows that the marriage won't stay same after that. He would be such a resentment to me going forward.