Has this happened to you? You have an argument with your spouse/partner and most of the time you feel that you are in the right. It is clear that the other person is in the wrong however, they refuse to accept it and this keeps repeating every time. How do you handle such a relationship?
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discuss Are you most of the time "right" in a "fight"?
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This thread focuses on relationships, including communication, dynamics, challenges, advice, and their impact on personal growth and connections.
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Captain Cackle
This has happened to me a few times, and it used to happen a lot back when I was in a mentally abusive relationship.
I would know I was right, but no matter how much I said I was and even explained, he always had an answer as to why he was right, and sometimes I would even doubt myself, even though I knew for sure I was right.
The only way to deal with that was to eventually get out of the relationship which I did.
I would know I was right, but no matter how much I said I was and even explained, he always had an answer as to why he was right, and sometimes I would even doubt myself, even though I knew for sure I was right.
The only way to deal with that was to eventually get out of the relationship which I did.
This happens in a gentle way in our relationship.
Usually it's a funny thing but if either of us can prove each other wrong about something, we will. LOL. I'm just a bit better at the research aspect of it.
But we do our best not to argue. In fact, I don't recall anytime we argued in the 6 years we've been together, now married.
I don't know why some people always carry ego into their relationship. That's the only reason they want to keep holding grounds even when they are wrong. I have been in such a relationship and we used to have long drawn out quarrels because of that. Such a partner would be very toxic.
I think it's a natural human tendency to try to always be in the right every time and feel even a slight bit of danger when we are told we aren't in the right. Different people have different threshold of accountability. I'd say I have no problems admiting when I'm wrong, and I'm not cool with self-righteousness. In some cases, I just let them talk what they want, and I remain unphased, simply to avoid bad blood. I'm single but I've been in a relationship with someone who could never handle the real truth and would even diminish me when I gave them evidence of them being in the wrong. Luckily I escaped from that a long time ago.
When I am into argument with my spouse, most of the time I am right in a fight. However, I will be always the one to say sorry and admit the mistake, even if it was her fault. There is no point to become a winner when winning will take away your peace of mind.
