A person close to me will not discipline her life to handle diabetes, and while I don't want to be preachy and bossy, I don't want to be responsible for harm to her via in-action.
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discuss When People Won't Listen to Advice
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This thread focuses on relationships, including communication, dynamics, challenges, advice, and their impact on personal growth and connections.
She'll have to make her own choice.
Maybe remind her that as people struggle to control their own choices with that, they tend to lose limbs in the process. Losing a limb as a diabetic isn't that rare.
If a DR told me I was borderline, it would scare me straight LOL
She's already had two toes removed.
I know this feeling. If you are directly responsible for the person then its much easier as you can re-stock their pantries with healthy options, set up alarm for them for their medications and exercise along with them may be. At least, this makes you feel less guilty. As a diabetic patient, it is not easy to adhere to all the restriction and treatment options as it is more of changing a lifestyle than just taking medicine, say, for a week.
I watched The Whale a few weeks ago and couldn't believe that the main character had a friend who was a nurse enabling his eating. I didn't find that compassionate at all.
She should've helped make smaller meals or walk out of his life as he essentially chose to leave hers through his actions.
She should've helped make smaller meals or walk out of his life as he essentially chose to leave hers through his actions.
It is very tough to watch someone that you are very close to neglect their health. But based on my experience, so many people need to face consequences of their actions before they can learn or make a change.
However, we can never force people to take care of themselves. All we can do is offer support or even provide them with the required resources if need be.
I personally don't have strength and time to waste on people that think they know it all. My major aim would be to pass the message I need to pass. If you like, you take it. When something bad happens to you, my conscience won't just blame me.
There are people that you just allow them to learn by experience. No need to talk too much in the form of advice. If I advise you up to three times over a thing, and you don't want to heed, I would just leave you to kill yourself.
Some people are hard headed , what is not good for their health s what they like to eat. My friend died at a young age of diabetes, she cannot control herself eating sweets, drinking colas, eating cakes and drinking coffee 4 mugs a day, She was tired of living.
You have already done the best you can do by giving her advice. As she refused to listen, she can't pin the name on anyone but herself. After all, its her life and her body.
In the age when kids are not listening to parents, when couples are not listening to their parents, when people are not listening to their loved ones, how can we expect some acquaintance to listen to us. These days it is very common for people to make their own choices and not listen to someone's good advice and then call it freedom and individualism.
Sometimes advice can be annoying and preachy. It's like spam, unless I've signed up for it, I don't want it.
Yeah right some people don't listen to good advice. They think they know it all or didn't ask for it. It can be difficult to suppress the impulse to dispense advice when you know the other person would not listen to you.my point-of-view if it wasn't asked for, don't give it.
Those who don't listen to advice will find themselves remorseful when they don't succeed in what they desire to happen in their lives.
