How would you handle a situation where your partner, goes out at every opportunity with his/her friends, smokes, drinks and have fun? Would be very unhappy if you questioned this behavior, or warned him/her of the side-effects of smoking daily. There comes a point that, he/she would find ways to spend time with those friends without your knowledge, makes chat groups with lock and in return does things to please you just to pacify you and show that you are also important? But of course, nothing skips your knowledge. Mind you that these friends are of same sex as that of your partner.
