discuss What Advice Can I Give to a Desperate Stepmother?

[theearner]

A desperate stepmother emailed me to express her frustration about her husband’s two children, aged 15 and 16. Despite her efforts to build a close relationship with them, they remain arrogant and rude toward her. She feels lost and unsure of what to do.
What advice would you give to help her navigate this challenging situation?

 

[Apsara]

I’d tell a desperate stepmother to practice patience and empathy, for herself and her family. Building trust takes time. Seeking support from others in similar situations helps.

 

[Niyi Brixx]

I have a step mum who eventually became my mother. This did not happen in a day, it took years of building trust and capacity. I would advice that she takes her time to build herself and to build tenacity while spreading love and peace. She shouldn't be in a hurry to create bond. Things would take the right turn soon.