discuss Red flags in a relationship

[Oshawott]

What are the biggest red flags in a relationship?

For me, the first and the biggest red flag is when a partner hides his phone or refuse free access to it.

 

[Yama]

I would say if your partner no longer respects you, that is the most evident red flag in a relation. In a relationship where respect is missing, it is already breaking apart.

 

[Oshawott]

Woul

I would say if your partner no longer respects you, that is the most evident red flag in a relation. In a relationship where respect is missing, it is already breaking apart.

Would that also mean respect for privacy?

Thats what I pointed out in my OP, mobile phones are constantly hidden form their life partner on the excuse of right to privacy and respecting those rights.

 

[Yama]

Woul

Would that also mean respect for privacy?

Thats what I pointed out in my OP, mobile phones are constantly hidden form their life partner on the excuse of right to privacy and respecting those rights.

I don't think privacy should exist between couples, especially married couple.When you are willing to get naked in front of partner what's the point of looking for privacy such as mobile phones?

 

[lens]

The red flags for me in a relationship are dishonesty and lack of transparency. Anytime I noticed this, I ran immediately.

 

[Oshawott]

I don't think privacy should exist between couples, especially married couple.When you are willing to get naked in front of partner what's the point of looking for privacy such as mobile phones?

Precisely. This is also the reason why I think that hiding the phone of your partner is a absolute red flag in any relationship.

A phone is like a window to the mind of the owner of the phone. No reason why your husband/wife should not peek into your life.

 

[Yama]

Precisely. This is also the reason why I think that hiding the phone of your partner is a absolute red flag in any relationship.

A phone is like a window to the mind of the owner of the phone. No reason why your husband/wife should not peek into your life.

We don't have any such boundaries. My wife tells me her decision to get married was heavily influenced by my Facebook page. She says, she checked my profile, checked all of my content and interaction, and found no read flags.

 

[Fidelia1]

For me, the biggest red flag in a relationship is insincerity. When once I discover that you have lied about something, that relationship is surely ending because the gravity of the lies would increase as time goes by. You should be able to tell me the whole truth no matter how much it would be difficult for you. I would appreciate such a partner more than when he tells a lie to cover up. Lies is my biggest red flag.

 

[Apsara]

lack of trust, poor communication, controlling behavior, disrespect, frequent criticism, and unwillingness to resolve conflicts are some of the red flags in a relationship. Ignoring these signs can lead to emotional harm, so recognizing them early helps protect your well-being.

 

[Kross]

Pride and cockiness is the biggest red flag in a relationship when I am involved. Someone that is proud can't be teachable. That means all other flaws she has can't be worked on. If you have pride, I would just end the relationship with you without telling you why.

 

[King Belieal]

The worst red flag for me in a relationship is when she disrespects me. That relationship is over the day she talks to me or acts towards me with disrespect. I would never disrespect her and won't take it if she does that to me.

 

[Maina]

For me red flags include lack of trust, disrespect, controlling behavior, and constant criticism. I believe noticing these early helps avoid toxic patterns and protects your emotional well-being.