discuss How fragile life can be?

[Dr. A]

One moment we are alive and the next we are gone! Human life is so unpredictable and bodies so fragile, in such a case, do you think it is only fair and in the benefit of one own self, to forgive others every time promptly? We waste a lot of time, debating whether to forgive or not, always letting either our ego or judgment cloud our minds, but when we see dead bodies, should we learn the lesson that forgiveness though difficult is indeed a form of closure which if delayed can lead to lifetime regrets? Do you forgive easily?

 

[Yama]

I cannot forgive, and I will never forgive anyone who has wronged me. However, this does not mean I will be seeking revenge or I will always be scheming against that person. I just cannot forgive the person. Life is certainly feeble and you never know when you die but what if you have to live? Can you easily forgive someone who has wronged you.

 

[Dr. A]

I cannot forgive, and I will never forgive anyone who has wronged me. However, this does not mean I will be seeking revenge or I will always be scheming against that person. I just cannot forgive the person. Life is certainly feeble and you never know when you die but what if you have to live? Can you easily forgive someone who has wronged you.

Although difficult, but I have learnt to be more forgiving. What helps me be tolerant to some extend is the fact that even during the rage I try to see a different perspective of the root cause of the wrong action in my head. Sometime it is unjustifiable, then I tell myself that its already done, and I can not undo the damage, however, I do clear the air and eventually let go of the incident even if it takes some time. This way I feel less burdened and have been able to keep hatred, ill-feelings and misery at bay. You should try too, it may help. Afterall, forgiveness is a virtue.

 

[Yama]

A simple question, can you forgive a a man who raped your kid, or murdered your parents and now walks freely in your neighborhood? I am asking this question because things like these are common in countries that have witnessed armed conflict.

 

[lens]

It is not always easy to forgive but due to the fragility of life, it makes sense to forgive to give room for personal growth. I don't hold on to resentment because it consumes me. I have learned to let go of my grievances, so I'm free like a bird.

 

[Kross]

When we come to realize that there is nothing much in this life, we won't waste our time having grudges, keeping malice and not forgiving people. I am guilty of unforgiveness too. And I am trying my best to make sure that I take a posture of forgiveness always.