discuss Hiding relationship status before marriage.

[Dr. A]

Just today a very saddened couple disclosed to me that they got their only son married to the "most eligible lady" in their opinion, only to find out about 6 months later, that the "lady" was already married and has two kids with the first husband! To complicate things, the former husband is re-married too, but neither had taken divorce first! How complicated is that? Now this "lady" has taken gold and cash from second husband and filed a case against him on the ground that he is abusing her! The former husband visited the second husband and demanded how could they marry his wife! This left me scratching my head! Where is the world going? How can such a thing be hidden? How fair is this? What are the possible solutions in this matter, in your opinion?

 

[Fidelia1]

I want to blame the second husband for not investigating properly but I just remembered that some women can hide things so dangerously. An entangled web. The second man should just count his losses and leave that woman.

 

[Apsara]

Hiding a relationship status before marriage can be a personal choice or a protective measure. Some do it to maintain privacy, avoid judgment, or prevent interference from family or society. Others might fear complications or have cultural reasons. However, if it stems from shame, lack of commitment, or dishonesty, it can signal deeper issues in the relationship.

 

[Maina]

I don’t hide my relationship status but I understand why some people do. Fear of judgment, cultural pressure, or past experiences can make individuals cautious. Some simply prefer privacy to protect their bond from outside opinions or interference.