I'm still trying to swallow a recent incident that happened to me. I feel betrayed by someone very close to me and it’s kind of like a weird feeling. It's one of those feelings I don't know how to handle at all. Anyone who has experienced this?
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discuss Have you ever been Betrayed?
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I've been through it, too. It's harsh when people you trust betrayed you. What I do is just focus on my own integrity and values. So, I don't let it weigh me down..
It is not always easy to move on when you've been betrayed. It will look like the world is coming crashing on you, but I believe that life should continue since we should not wallow in such sadness.
The only way to avoid or prevent not being betrayed is by not dealing with people for as long as you're having one or two things to do with human beings, their selfish interested will be in the way one day that's going to lead to their betrayal.
Even Jesus Christ was betrayed by his own disciple.
Even Jesus Christ was betrayed by his own disciple.
I have been betrayed but I try to uphold my integrity and values ever since then. I don't let it get into my way, instead I maintain myself worth and not let it consume me. Though it might not be easy but i’m glad I learnt some valuable lesson
I don't always feel anything when I am betrayed. I have been one person that has learned not to expect too much from anyone including by siblings. Everyone around me is seen as a potential traitor. Maybe, that is why I have never felt betrayed.
With my kind of person and mindset it doesn't gets to that. I always give people room to be nasty. That's humans for you. you don't need to expect much from them
Yes from many, l think at first they are my best friends. But l was wrong.
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I have been betrayed many times over the years; some of them have not hurt as much as I wasn't as close to the person, but there have been a few that did hurt and took a while to get over.
One was when my brother broke up with his girlfriend and needed somewhere to stay, I took him in and gave him a roof over his head, food and made sure he was safe, all he had to do in return was get his life on track, get a job and get himself sorted. Instead, he chose to not bother getting a job and instead would head out on a night, taking my keys and not coming back until late and then would sleep all day. I felt betrayed and annoyed and eventually had to tell him he couldn't stay anymore.
One was when my brother broke up with his girlfriend and needed somewhere to stay, I took him in and gave him a roof over his head, food and made sure he was safe, all he had to do in return was get his life on track, get a job and get himself sorted. Instead, he chose to not bother getting a job and instead would head out on a night, taking my keys and not coming back until late and then would sleep all day. I felt betrayed and annoyed and eventually had to tell him he couldn't stay anymore.
I have also been betrayed in the past and those betrayals are from the people I trusted so much. It was so painful and it took me a very long time to heal. I’m over it now and more careful with people.
I have been betrayed by a client. He came for me to produce his album for him. He didn't even have money but had talent. I produced the entire album free of charge for him. He got popular and famous. He completely forgot about me. Have tried reaching out to him but he clearly told me he works with big producers now. That's one big scar he has caused in my heart.
That's rough.
But, you technically own the copyright for it. Put it up for free as an ad for what you can do for others, but sign paperwork before getting to work with anyone else.
Yeah. That's what I have learned from all of that. I would always approach any of such situations with a complete business mindset. If he or she is not ready to sign a contract, I can't produce him or her for free.
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