discuss A person unhappy in marriage but just staying in the marriage for the children. Right or Wrong?

[Kross]

I have met so many married people that are clearly unhappy in their marriage. But they don't want to consider the option of leaving. They cope with the unhappy marriage and stay just for the children to be raised in a balanced home that has mother and father.

Do you think it is right for people to stay in unhappy marriages just for the sake of the children? Would you stay?

 

[Dr. A]

Not all the days in a marriage are equal. Ups and downs are part of marriage. In fact, the other name for marriage is compromise. Hence, if the parents are wise enough to mutually co-exist for the sake of their children, I think it is unselfish and a great sacrifice on their part, a praise worthy decision as long as there is a mutual understanding between the couple for the mental peace.

 

[Yama]

I think it is really difficult to answer this question with a plain right or wrong. It depends on what kind of relationship you have and how old your kids are and what your financial conditions are.

 

[Kross]

I always believe that people deserve to be happy. And there is no reason at all that would justify unhappiness. Would the children actually be happy when one of the partners is always happy and showing resentment every time? It is best to let go if you are fundamentally unhappy in the marriage.

 

[Jason]

I've seen this first hand. It's not good. Maybe it just turned out the man or woman fell in love with a different person than before the kids.

 

[Fidelia1]

I won't stay with a man that constantly makes me unhappy because of the kids. I would take my kids and leave. Such a marriage would lead one to have hypertension and die. An the man would marry another woman. When I don't have sincere happiness from a relationship or marriage and I am constantly sad in it, it I take my leave immediately.

 

[lens]

I'm not one of those who believe in staying in a toxic marriage just because of the kids. I also believe that children that are raised in such conditions might not do well in life because it's definitely going to have a negative impact on them.

 

[King Belieal]

I won't stay in a marriage that is plagued with constant quarrels and fights. I know of a couple that have big quarrels three times a day. You can clearly see that these two people are not happy. They should divorce and go find true happiness elsewhere. Marriage is not a prison sentence.

 

[Apsara]

Staying in a marriage unhappy just for the children is complex. While stability can benefit kids, prolonged unhappiness can affect everyone’s well-being.

 

[King Belieal]

The kids are not enough reason to mortgage your own happiness. Every person that loves his or her self should better leave a marriage that is toxic. The depression inherent can easily lead to suicidal thoughts.

 

[Maina]

Staying unhappy in marriage just for the children is a tough choice. I think it depends on the situation, sometimes it’s best for stability, but prolonged unhappiness can affect everyone.

 

[Augusta]

Staying in a marriage for the sake of the children is a complex one. While it can provide stability and a sense of normalcy, it can also expose children to conflict and unhappiness,